Yes, it's sexy. My wife has a lot of leather bondage gear, different lingerie. There is also fetish harness .We also buy different games for two people all the time, it's just as exciting. I'm really glad I found a woman like that with whom I can try new things and never get bored. She constantly surprises me. I try to please her too. I arrange surprises, give gifts. Of course, it wasn't always like this, it took us a long time to get there.